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I am going through a very similar journey. Everything you said resonates with me. My wife of 20years left me for someone else. I was forced to take accountability for myself and failed marriage. I have transformed so much in the last year. You are my favorite podcast. I’m doing the work the best I can. I’m so grateful for your insight. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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Nov 16, 2023·edited Nov 16, 2023

Thank you for sharing. I felt this part deeply. Exactly how I felt, you articulated so well. I am now putting energy into myself - healing, trying new things, etc.

A part of me knew, deep in my bones, that he was capable of leaving me abruptly. And what’s more relevant is that a bigger part of me, deep in my soul, wished for the ordeal of our marriage to be over. Walking away, however, was never an option. I was way too afraid to be without him.

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Wow what a story Jillian. I felt like you were talking to me and my heartbreak.

Thank you for always shining a bright white light to pain and suffering.

There is always a lesson and purpose which should make us feel better. But

I’m still going through grief.

I am also volunteering and trying to be connected to people again as I completely shut down and had no one to help me like you did.

What a horrible wake up call. I wish I could go back and change that story.

I did it alone and with therapy.

Thank you for always making me feel better and learn to heal with all of your insights. You are so brilliant and compassionate. We are so grateful for your work. ❤️❤️❤️

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I had a very traumatic divorce. This summer, I experienced a “break up” with a friend that was just devastating to me and so heartbreaking . I found you on instagram after a relationship breakup a few years ago and I admire your vulnerability and the work you to do to help. Thank you ❤️

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founding

Rings so true

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