Some people are just undateable.

It’s the uncomfortable truth.

Hi there,

Just because someone might seem like a good person to date doesn’t necessarily mean they are the person you should be with. 

Maybe they do all the “right” things. They go to therapy. They do all the personal development work. They do yoga. They meditate. They’re a good friend.

But when we go into the dating world, we need to understand that some people don’t have strong character or they have completely different values than you or they’re not prepared for a relationship. And this makes them undateable. It doesn’t matter if you’re super attracted to them. Unfortunately, your connection won’t change this, either. Good on paper? Not good enough. 

Some people are just undateable. Here’s what I mean.