Hi there,
10 years ago, I thought my life was over. It was falling apart — I’d lost my mom and my marriage in a matter of weeks. I was genuinely concerned about my health and wellbeing, and to be honest with you, I didn’t know if I’d survive. I was so deep in a hole of pain and didn’t know how to get out.
My life was not what I thought it would be, and I learned that when our life conditions don’t align with our vision of what we think life should be, we suffer.
I never — in a million years — would have been able to imagine this life of mine. I never would have seen a community like this one coming and a life centered around learning, service, and curiosity. It was beyond the realm of possibility.
What I’ve learned on my own healing journey is that there are many parts that make for fulfilled, satisfied lives. But I know with certainty that relationships and the state of our romantic life determine our lives — whether you’re happily single, dating, partnered, or heartbroken.
The truth is this: We can have all the money we want, be successful at work, and have a purpose that gets us up in the morning, but if our relationship is in shambles, so are we.
I wrote It Begins With YOU: The 9 Hard Truths About Love that Will Change Your Life with that reality in mind. I wrote it for each and every one of you — but also, I wrote it for the Jillian who was struggling so immensely in her marriage all those years ago. It’s everything I wish I could have told her.
It Begins With YOU: The 9 Hard Truths About Love that Will Change Your Life comes out next week — and if you pre-order anytime before 11pm EST on Monday, I have two extremely special things coming your way. (To be clear: You get both of these offers!)
Welcome to the biggest event of my career so far.
The incredible Matthew Hussey and I are doing a virtual event together on Sunday, January 19th — and it’s absolutely free for anyone who pre-orders the book. Your Year In Love is an in-depth event where you’ll learn how to create your most powerful and empowered year in love yet — complete with concrete, actionable takeaways. Don’t miss this very rare opportunity. If you can’t join live, you get access to the recording. You can register for the event here.
Choose yourself — in every way.
For readers who pre-order my book, I’m so thrilled to offer Choose Yourself: Break Patterns and Become Your Most Secure Self. This instant-download, 23-page workbook is free and available for anyone who pre-orders or has pre-ordered the book — today. You can get the workbook here.
You’ll learn what it means to choose yourself — and, critically, what it doesn’t mean. You’ll receive clear, actionable steps to start living the life you are meant to live — which includes your love life. I can’t wait for you to dive in. May it guide you toward a life filled with more intuition, purpose, and meaning.
Thank you for sticking with me on this journey. I’m so, so excited to share It Begins With YOU with the world.
Love,
Jillian