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Jenn Rasmussen's avatar

Thank you, Jillian. It needed this. I just had a meetup to talk with the ex. It was a loving talk, but it also brought back our bonding feeling. After our talk, we hugged, and it went on longer than I felt it should, but it was hard to let go. I knew I had to before it led to something more. Like you said, that bonding felt calm, safe again.... but for the first time after a break up, I didn't run back to bed with an ex, I said goodbye with a HUGE lump in my throat and tears in my eyes... but I did it. Thank you again for this Love Weekly. You always know what to say at the correct time for me. Big hugs.

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Tanya Crowell's avatar

This is a helpful explanation as to why when we know the break-up was the right decision, our minds keep trying to convince us to second guess.

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