Glad to see you’ve started sharing on Substack! I’ve followed your work for a long time ever since I was single and couldn’t start a healthy relationship to save my life... now I’ve been in an incredible relationship for the past year and a half and very happy.
I have this theory that almost any married couple COULD have a great relationship. IF, and this is the kicker, if they were willing to let the relationship be what it is. What we expect is a relationship that is what relationships are supposed to look like in 2023. In fact, the chances of two individuals having a great relationship that looks exactly like the ‘supposed to be’ relationship as per the TV shows is not reasonable. 8 Billion individuals all of whom are different can somehow partner up and their coupling looks exactly like an ideal? All of them? It might be your perfect relationship isn’t even being married to that person. But you can have a good relationship, even a great one, or a very healthy one. My wife and I are now together about half the week. I have told many people this, people that know us a d were asking if we had separated. Nope. But we have two homes and come and go from each. We have been together 40 years, but been doing the half week thing for three years. Here is the weird thing. NO ONE HAS SAID ANYTHING OTHER THAN POSITIVE THINGS. “You guys are apart half the week?” I say yes. “Oh that would be awesome!” No one has said ‘gee, I would not like that.’ Funnily enough about half the women, and no men, have said ‘soooo...what are the rules when you’re apart?’ Said with a grin. Same rules. Everyone so far likes the idea, no one lives that way.
So happy you’re on here Jillian. I’ll subscribe to everything you have to offer bc you’re my source of inspiration and knowledge to get through some of my toughest moments. Thank you for your words of wisdom and I’m grateful to have discovered you at the right time in my life.
Great to see you here, Jillian. It’s an amazing counterbalance to IG and an opportunity to go deeper than one can in a short video or carousel. Excited to see what you do on Substack and get to know your work better.
Glad to see you’ve started sharing on Substack! I’ve followed your work for a long time ever since I was single and couldn’t start a healthy relationship to save my life... now I’ve been in an incredible relationship for the past year and a half and very happy.
I have this theory that almost any married couple COULD have a great relationship. IF, and this is the kicker, if they were willing to let the relationship be what it is. What we expect is a relationship that is what relationships are supposed to look like in 2023. In fact, the chances of two individuals having a great relationship that looks exactly like the ‘supposed to be’ relationship as per the TV shows is not reasonable. 8 Billion individuals all of whom are different can somehow partner up and their coupling looks exactly like an ideal? All of them? It might be your perfect relationship isn’t even being married to that person. But you can have a good relationship, even a great one, or a very healthy one. My wife and I are now together about half the week. I have told many people this, people that know us a d were asking if we had separated. Nope. But we have two homes and come and go from each. We have been together 40 years, but been doing the half week thing for three years. Here is the weird thing. NO ONE HAS SAID ANYTHING OTHER THAN POSITIVE THINGS. “You guys are apart half the week?” I say yes. “Oh that would be awesome!” No one has said ‘gee, I would not like that.’ Funnily enough about half the women, and no men, have said ‘soooo...what are the rules when you’re apart?’ Said with a grin. Same rules. Everyone so far likes the idea, no one lives that way.
So happy you’re on here Jillian. I’ll subscribe to everything you have to offer bc you’re my source of inspiration and knowledge to get through some of my toughest moments. Thank you for your words of wisdom and I’m grateful to have discovered you at the right time in my life.
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Great to see you here, Jillian. It’s an amazing counterbalance to IG and an opportunity to go deeper than one can in a short video or carousel. Excited to see what you do on Substack and get to know your work better.
Follow you on the grammy and LOVE that you're here now. Just started writing here too. Look forward to your shares and appreciate you so much.